世上没有好养的孩子：12岁前，父母必须做出的33个教养抉择 (There Is No Easily-raised Child: 33 Parenting Options to Be Made by Parents of Children Younger than 12)

请爸妈"退后一步"，做个旁观者，别再插手过问孩子能做的事、别再念叨提醒孩子可以承担的事。你需要让他知道，他所做的一切是为了自己。他才是自己的主人。教育专家告诉你，这样教出自信、自律、专心、爱学习、有创意的好孩子！ 成(Parents are expected to "take a step back" and learn to be bystanders, and they should no long interfere in matters children can do by themselves, nor repeatedly remind children of something with their ability. You have to let children know that everything they do is done for themselves and that they are the masters of themselves. As suggested by education experts, children raised in this way will be confident and self-disciplined and have a good ability of concentrating, a great passion of learning and inventiveness.)